Halfway There

She says, we’ve got to hold on to what we’ve got
It doesn’t make a difference if we make it or not
We’ve got each other and that’s a lot for love
We’ll give it a shot

If you are a fan of 80’s Glam Metal – or prefer the New Jersey superstar not named Bruce Springsteen or Billy Joel – you know the next line:

Woah, we’re halfway there
Woah, livin’ on a prayer
Take my hand, we’ll make it I swear
Woah, livin’ on a prayer

The star-crossed lovers of Bon Jovi’s stadium rock staple were facing dire times. Tommy isn’t getting paid because the union is on strike. Gina dreams of running away and cries in the night.

While it isn’t clear how the story ends, the song provides hope they made it. A year ago, hope was a long shot. Six months ago, hope gave way to promise. Recently, promise stepped aside for good health. 

You live for the fight when it’s all that you’ve got

Here’s to having made it through our darkest days. Here’s to a great second half of 2021. Here’s to answered prayers.

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I’m In

A technique used by meeting facilitators is to conduct a ‘check-in’ at the start of the day. Participants share a comment – ‘I’m energized…’ – then state – ‘…and I’m in.’ Of course, depending on what they’re feeling, the first part might be: “I’m frustrated’ or ‘I’m angry’ or ‘I’m distracted.’ Utilizing this approach signals to everyone the individual mood elevators within the room.

‘I’m in’ is a common phrase. It could be an email to your buddy in the office: “If you do Chinese takeout for lunch, I’m in.” It might be a reply to a friend who asked, ‘We’re heading to the lake for the Fourth, want to join us?” It could be a high school senior opening a big envelope from their preferred college choice, looking up with a smile and saying to parents, “I’m in.”

When my brother and his former Wall Street investment peers started discussing Bitcoin and the blockchain in the fall of 2017, I read their email exchanges without responding. When the price soared toward $18,000 that December, I finally commented.

“I’ve read a lot about this,” I wrote. “The blockchain is a game-changer. The question is: will Bitcoin be the one people adopt or will another crypto overtake it? Remember Commodore 64? Bitcoin is being hyped by a generation much younger than us. I’m out.”

When Bitcoin fell to $3,000, I felt brilliant. When it soared to $60,000 earlier this year, I felt like an idiot. When it dropped to near $30,000 a couple of weeks ago? Well, I’ve read a lot more, so I said, “I’m in” – buying a little Bitcoin and a little more Ethereum.

So why now?

FOMO? YOLO? ICYMI?

IMHO putting a tiny bit of our investment portfolio toward something that could end up being the real thing – now that crypto is mainstream – seems wise. After all, younger folks are doing life different than us older ones, so why not join in?

Is it the right decision? IDK. Gonna leave it to our three kids to decide after we transition to the big ethernet in the sky.

HBU?

TTYL

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Fruitful Misdirection

June 9, 1981… I’m sitting with nine rising college seniors in the office of the news director of KDFW-TV in Dallas. We’re there to start our summer news internship. He’s going around the room, asking each of us what we envision for a career. When it’s my turn, I say, “I really want to be in sports, but you didn’t have that internship here.”

Bob Henry stands up, says to the others, ‘Excuse us,’ and takes me across the open newsroom to the small cubicle of the sports director. “Find something for this kid to do the next 10 weeks,” he says. The sports director looks at me and replies, “OK, but I’m leaving this afternoon for Milwaukee, so you’ll have to wait. Oh, and see that pretty woman out there? She’s mine. Stay away.”

I recall the next day clearly, because Major League Baseball went on strike. When he returned, the sports director asked me what I knew about sports. I brain-dumped a whole lot of trivia… and told him I’d had a sports internship in Austin at ‘the worst television station in Texas.’ I mentioned that because of limited resources, I got to do everything and learned how to edit videotape highlights.

A few weeks later, he went out of town again and asked me to pick him up at Love Field when he returned. I lived in Fort Worth and wasn’t all that familiar with the Dallas airport area. On the way back to our downtown TV station, I got lost. So we spent an hour in the car… talking and getting to know each other. That 33-year-old man and this 21-year-old kid became fast friends.

The summer passed quickly, the internship went well, and my last day arrived. A few hours before Live at Five, he said, “I’d like you to be my sports producer.” I said: “That would be great. I graduate in May.” He said, “The job won’t be here in May, I need you now.”

That evening, he spoke to my parents and told them he would ensure I’d graduate… and the next morning I drove to Austin to meet with the Dean of the Journalism School, written job offer in hand. “We’re here to educate and prepare you for a career. Seems we did that.” UT waved the ‘last 24 hours must be taken on campus’ rule and I went to work on Labor Day 1981 – making $5.05 per hour. It was a blast… and I learned so much from him.

On June 12, 1982, I was Best Man at the wedding of the sports director and the pretty woman. He worked there another year, got fired, and moved across town a week later to WFAA. There he found fame by airing strong opinions on sports and injustices of the world.

Fast-forward four decades to the day from that first meeting. He’s retiring in a few months. Congratulations to you and Chris for a well-earned rest – and thank you for taking a chance on me, Dale Hansen.

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Curtain Call

Curtain Call

Growing up in Fort Worth, I sometimes accompanied my parents to Casa Manana for summer-stock productions of Broadway shows. The first one I remember attending was ‘Hello Dolly’ starring Ruta Lee. That theatre-in-the-round experience gave 11-year-old me an appreciation of musicals that continues today.

Here’s my ranking of shows I have attended:

Top 5

Hamilton
Les Mis (Seen 7 times)
Phantom (6x)
Come From Away
Wicked

Next 5

Miss Saigon
Will Rogers Follies
Secret Garden
Million Dollar Quartet
Jelly’s Last Jam

11-20

Jesus Christ Superstar (3x)
Guys and Dolls
Five Guys Named Moe
Godspell (2x)
The Wiz
Putnam County Spelling Bee
Forever Plaid
Beehive
Kissless (Local H.S. production; never made Broadway)

The Classics

Annie
Annie Get Your Gun
Best Little Whorehouse in Texas
Damn Yankees
Evita
Fiddler on the Roof
Grease
Hairspray
Hello Dolly
Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat
Mame
Man of LaMancha
Music Man
Oklahoma
Showboat
Sound of Music
West Side Story

3 I’ll Never See Again

Brigadoon
Li’l Abner
Starlight Express

2 I Haven’t Seen And Will

The Lion King
Dear Evan Hansen

1 I Like That Most Don’t

Cats

From 1974-76, Ruta Lee was co-host of High Rollers on NBC with a little known fellow Canadian: Alex Trebek. She headlined at Casa for decades – last performing there in 2015. Coincidentally, Ruta Lee was born on this date in 1935. Happy Birthday… and thank you.

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Second Thoughts

‘Frozen February’ meant when spring arrived many of the plants around Houston failed to awaken from their winter slumber. Morning strolls around our neighborhood included a lot of head-shaking at so much unseasonally brown color.

Hawthorns and Lantana didn’t survive the unexpected dip into single digits. So I turned to the company that mows our yard ($25 per week!) to take them out and do other work.

Everything went great the first day as they removed the plants, dug out roots and mulched our flowerbeds. Then another crew returned a week later to replace some dead St. Augustine grass in our backyard and clean the gutters, which were filled with pine needles. When they arrived, I was on a walk.

I got back and specifically told a worker to not touch the vines that snaked throughout an eight-foot latticework and provided a beautiful view outside Kathy’s kitchen window. Then I went inside to take a shower. When I got out, all of it – dead and living – was gone. The crew leader told me everything would grow back in two weeks. It’s now five and counting. There are a few dozen green leaves as summer nears.

Three times I texted the company owner – who I’ve known for years – asking what he thinks I should tell Kathy. He is yet to respond.

People make mistakes. Maybe they didn’t realize the type of vines. Maybe one person didn’t tell the other. Maybe there was a language barrier. All of those are understandable. Things happen. Not accepting responsibility? Once the grass stops growing in the fall, it may mean the end of a long-term relationship.

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