Direction Change

When I was a kid, ‘far out’ was a standard, Sixties-era, hippie-inspired expression. Fast forward five decades and you’ll hear ‘far left’ and ‘far right’ and not much ‘far out.’

Whatever hot topic of the news cycle – taxation, abortion, masks, vaccination, climate change, gun control, childcare, and many others – most of the non-stop rhetoric comes from those on the far ends of the political spectrum. Meanwhile, the rest of us are just living our lives.

If non-stop noise from The Extremes ignites stress and frustration in your life, consider tuning it out and focusing on what you can control. A good place to start might be with contemplating the message sent long ago from the ‘far up’: Love your neighbor as yourself.

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Under Control

Each morning, I read several business newsletters, then a couple more in the afternoon. I listen to podcasts throughout the week. I participate in a couple of CEU sessions every month. Thus… I can’t remember where, during the past month, I read/heard the approach described below, so I’ll just say ‘Thank you’ to the forgotten creator.

Take a blank sheet of paper. Divide it into three columns. List under each one situations in your home and work life. Here are some of the ones on mine, along with the total number of items:

Control (14) – Health & Exercise, Strategy, Social media/TV time

Influence (7) – Referral sources, Diversification, Scheduling

No Control (10) – Our adult children’s safety, Politics/Religion, Reactions of others

I keep this list on my desk. During the past month, I’ve reviewed it at least once per week. It seems to be helping me stay focused on what I can control or influence and let go of what I can’t.

Perhaps it would help you, too.

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Wise Words

If you’re a sports fan and hear the names ‘Walton’ and ‘Watson’, you might think of a hyperbolic NBA analyst and a golfer who won eight majors beginning in 1975 (or a more recent two-time Masters champion named Bubba). If you’re a fan of business leaders, you might think of a legendary founder and a long-ago CEO.

Sam Walton took his single Rogers, Arkansas store and grew it into the mega-retailer that today employees more than 2.3 million. Thomas J. Watson, Sr., worked his way up from a salesman at National Cash Register, to GM of the Computing-Tabulating-Recording company, which he renamed IBM and became chairman.

Both ranked among the leading business icon’s – and wordsmiths – of their eras… and have many inspirational stories attributed to them.

In his book, Made in America, Walton explained: “The two most important words I ever wrote were on that first Wal-Mart sign: ‘Satisfaction Guaranteed.’ They’re still up there, and they have made all the difference.” 

This one might be true… or perhaps anecdotal. When asked by a reporter how he became successful, Walton allegedly said, “I’ve made a lot of good decisions.” When the reporter followed up with how he learned to make good decisions, Walton responded, “By making a lot of bad decisions.”

Walton even wrote about Watson: “He decided they would never have more than four layers from the chairman of the board to the lowest level of the company. That may have been the greatest single reason why IBM was successful.”

Then there’s Watson’s legendary lesson: “Recently, I was asked if I was going to fire an employee who made a mistake that cost the company $600,000. No, I replied, I just spent $600,000 training him. Why would I want somebody to hire his experience?”

Of course, in 1943, he said: “I think there is a world market for maybe five computers.” Hey, nobody’s perfect.

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Positive Approach

Top 10 Quotes from Ted Lasso

10. “Taking on a challenge is a lot like riding a horse, isn’t it? If you’re comfortable while you’re doing it, you’re probably doing it wrong.”

9. “If the Internet has taught us anything, it’s that sometimes it’s easier to speak our minds anonymously.”

8. “A palace made out of crystal seems mighty fragile to me.”

7. “I think that you might be so sure that you’re one in a million, that sometimes you forget that out there you’re just one in 11.”

6. “Sam was more open than the jar of peanut butter on my counter.”

5. “I feel like we fell out of the lucky tree and hit every branch on the way down, ended up in a pool of cash and Sour Patch Kids.”

4. “Your body is like day-old rice. If it ain’t warmed up properly, something real bad could happen.”

3. “There’s two buttons I never like to hit: that’s panic and snooze.”

2. “I want you to know, I value each of your opinions, even when you’re wrong.”

1. “I believe in hope. I believe in ‘Believe.’”

And My Personal Favorite

“You know what the happiest animal on earth is? It’s a goldfish. You know why? It’s got a 10-second memory.”

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Off Sides

To paraphrase legendary 60 Minutes commentator Andy Rooney: Why is it people so often take something fun and try to tear it apart?

Great restaurant? “Yes, but the towels in the restroom were paper.”

Great car? “Maybe, but the radio only has eight speakers.”

Great movie? “Well, I mean, keep in mind, it was just a Disney film.”

Which brings us to the surprise television hit Ted Lasso. (If you haven’t seen it: Apple TV+… and worth every penny of the $5 monthly fee.)

Having received 20 Emmy nominations for its first season, including all six of the main characters, expectations were high for year two. Personally, we’ve enjoyed each of the episodes released thus far. Lots of critics, however, are dismissing it as ‘lacking a cohesive concept,’ ‘having a premise that makes no sense,’ and ‘not unwatchably bad but isn’t really much of anything.”

Perhaps those who write these reviews for a living would prefer to watch yet another season of some CSI offshoot, one more hospital show, or ‘America’s Got the Masked Bachelorette Race with the Stars.’ I’d rather spend my time with a cast of characters who approach life’s challenges with freshness and joy. (And the football – aka soccer –  is pretty good.)  

To quote legendary coach, Ted Lasso: “If you care about someone, and you got a little love in your heart, there ain’t nothing you can’t get through together.”

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