Archive for December, 2009

Give Where You Can

Wednesday, December 30th, 2009

And the last of the Top 10 things I learned in 2009:
#1
We Are The World – Are you aware a billion people do not have access to clean drinking water and nearly 40,000 children die every week from lack of this basic need? Charity: Water is one of the nonprofits that provides clean and safe [...]

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It’s Best to Address

Tuesday, December 29th, 2009

The penultimate thing I learned in 2009:
#2
Think It, Say It – One of my weaknesses as a husband, father and friend is trying to keep those I care about from feeling pain. Thus, I tend to withhold bad news and act as a peacemaker whenever there is rising conflict. (Interestingly, this never is a problem [...]

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Money Isn’t the Answer

Monday, December 28th, 2009

Continuing counting down the Top 10 things I learned in 2009:
#3
Hold That Tiger – Dan Jenkins, the legendary former SI writer and author of many humorous sports novels, once described the “10 Stages of Drunkenness.” Number one is ‘Witty and Charming.’ Four is ‘Clairvoyant.’ Six is ‘Patriotic.’ Nine and Ten: ‘Invisible’ and ‘Bulletproof.’ In the [...]

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Seek Professional Advice

Thursday, December 24th, 2009

Another of the Top 10 things I learned this year:
#4
Target 2027 – Up and down. Up and down. The rollercoaster ride of the stock market the past decade is enough to make you woozy. With my Big 5-0 arriving in 179 days, we recently entrusted our retirement savings to a money management firm. Aligning with [...]

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Find a Way to Surprise

Thursday, December 24th, 2009

One more of the Top 10 things I learned in 2009:
#5
A Big Bow Wow – We put down our 16-year-old Golden Retriever in July. Those who have experienced that passage know it’s tough. As we worked through detachment the next several days, our vet surprised us in two ways. First, a nice sympathy card arrived, [...]

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